See what this is like, right, is this:
You’ve baked a load of cookies, with the intention of lacing them with laxative and distributing them to unsuspecting others, as a means of getting attention. Then forgetting to add the laxatives, but give them out anyway. Then, people are enjoying the cookies, and hang around for a bit of a chat and that. You get miffed that they’re all ignoring you, then you say ‘Ha! But you’re all eating my cookies’. And they just look at you as if to say, ‘yeah, and?’ Leaving you to have to quickly think up another way to get attention…
It’s like that.
HTH. 😀