You’re looking at top spec forks from the main two manufacturers. They’re both capable options. They are both adjustable. You can adjust them both to feel godawful. You can adjust them both to hit the sweet spot. A single criticism of the RockShox is that it has a very light high speed compression tune so if you are a heavier rider it might not have the range of adjustment you need.
The “rampiness” you think you’re after is not a characteristic I would ever aim for, but each to their own. You can stick spacers in either fork and get ramp. If you have a rampy spring that you soften, you will not have support. If you have too few spacers, you will not get a buttery feel off the top.
The compression tune is the way to use your travel efficiently – the Fox will have more range of adjustment in the compression tune. If you’re not too heavy, the Rockshox has a smaller range of adjustment that is more user-friendly. FWIW at 80kg, my preference is the RockShox because it is easy for me to set and forget.
Lastly, other brands do exist. If you really think your needs (buttah, support, ramp) are in any way special you should maybe research other brands’ unique selling points.