Got rid of mine a couple of weeks ago. same 3/4/5 sort of length, too curly to look good longer, unless I went Massive Beard, which wouldn’t really go with the work outfit.
I spend a bit longer shaving now, (always did the neck anyway), but I spend less time looking in the mirror wondering whether it actually looks good or if I should just shave it off.
You’ll never get reliable feedback/consensus on a beard, because people are wary of being overly critical – Your beard is shit/ you can’t grow a proper beard, feels harsh, but often fair!