Thanks guys and girls for your pearly words of wisdom …
Have had a bit of reflect based on some of the above (not the monkey business – far too cold and I’ll probably be dirty enough already cos it’s quite muddy out now 🙂 )
In the end, I can never really pretend to be anyone other than myself (whether on the forum or in ‘real life’!), so I’m happy to arrange to do something reasonably active outdoors because that’s a big part of who I am. I’ll re-think the ‘head up the mountains for the day’ option (as yes, he might be a boring psycho), and maybe suggest a shorter / slightly lower level option in the hills, followed by a panad if we’re getting on.
Don’t think having a pint of Pete’s tea before setting off would be a wise idea … mountain loo’s being not that readily available and it takes me ages to wiggle out of my waterproofs!
I’m trying to get my head round seeing it as a ‘potential friend with possible future options’ (no sniggering in the back please …) so emsz will wait and see if there is any spark!
And will promise not to flounce on the first date 🙂
Ah yes, I forgot the real test ‘required number of bikes = n+1 (and yes it’s perfectly acceptable for them to live in the dining room …)