@riderdown, don’t worry, just keep doing the right thing. This forum is huge and, like anywhere else on the Internet, will have people who look for ways to drag others down. Ignore what those people say, you’ll lose nothing.
As you’ve found, and I’ve been really heartened to learn about through this thread, there’s MUCH more goodwill and good intent here than most people ever realise. And some of us have been through darker places than we ever normally talk about, so this is a good place we can help each other out when that happens.
I’m so glad you’re pointing in a good direction now and I hope that continues.