Mine defiantly wears the bigger cogs faster. In the same way I used to get through several middle rings to a big ring and it wears out chainrings faster too.
It depends on which gears you sit in, which is why everyone gets a different experience from cassette wear. Personally, I have quite a fast cadence when on the MTB, and never ride it on the road, so the smaller sprockets never wear out as they rarely get used. I also like to go reasonably quick (it’s all relative, of course!) so I don’t tend to use the crawler gears very much. This results in me always wearing out the centre of the block first on every cassette I’ve had on the MTB.
Being honest, It’s about time I re-evaluated what gears I actually need and adjust the ratios accordingly.