On alloy and aggressive most frames these days are heavier than older ones.
I’ve got a Transition Sentinel alloy – there’s no doubting that Transition are built strong – but it is heavy. The Bird Aether 7 frame I had before was a chunk lighter – even with a coil shock on it vs the air shock on my Sentinel.
I think your description is a mixture of riding – I think ‘downcountry’ or short travel trail is what you’re after. I think with technical surrey hills stuff / some BPW and bigger rougher stuff I’d aim more trail.
Alloy limits the choices but I think I’d consider the following:
Nukeproof Reactor 275 / 290
Bird Aether 7 / 9
Sonder Cortex (maybe a bit shorter travel / lighter duty)
Giant Trance
Trek Fuel alloy
Vitus Mythique? There was a big fuss about these a few years ago but not seen anything of them since then