I started a new job earlier in the year and was told my training would take place sometime in November/December somewhere in Europe.
I have now been told it will now take over 2 weeks in East Asia.
The dates I have been given mean that I will be away for my 50th birthday which falls on the middle weekend and I believe my family have organised something although I’m not supposed to know about it. The course schedule shows it finishes at 5pm on the Friday and resumes at 9am on the Monday so traveling back is not an option.
Am I being unreasonable to say no to this. The company have no other courses scheduled at the moment so want me to attend this as it may be another six months before another is run.