I FIND IT A LOT EASIER TO FINISH WHEN I’M INSIDE HER HEAD. MIGHT BE A MENTAL THING. TROUBLE IS, SHE ISN’T (UNDERSTANDABLY) ALWAYS UP FOR IT.
Ear sex has never done it for me…
Your thinking about it too much!
Just switch off the thoughts and go with the flow, having sex WITH someone is better having sex for someone.
If it’s getting sore, it’s cause she’s lost interest/frustrated…try more foreplay, use toys, bondage, etc….It’s not all about penetration.
Seems you know more how to satisfy her than yourself, try new stuff and see what turns you on properly..you’re in a samo samo rut and need some variation..
Oh and try slowing down and be more sensual, don’t rush to make her cum as it just puts more pressure on you. put on some soft tunes and not trash metal, something that will chill out your rhythmn.
Film yourselves at it or in front of a mirror.
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