We did a big party for my wife’s 40th a couple of years back – it was what she wanted and she loved it – brilliant evening.
We took the kids to see the Tinkerbell movie on my 40th. I didn’t want a fuss, my younger brother was in and out of hospital fighting the Big C at the time and it didn’t feel right to do something big/extravagant.
I’m 50 in 4.5 years, and the thought of a party/fuss fills me with horror.
My Brother died soon after my 40th and for some reason i have a bit of a guilt complex regarding celebrating my own birthday – can’t explain it – don’t feel i need to.. Happy to mark the occasion quietly.
I’d be quite happy just going out for a nice dinner with my wife/daughters.