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  • tall_martin
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    I’ve not had a great deal of second dates in the last few years, long term girlfriends and ex wives, but I’ve got one tonight at hers.

    Is turning up with flowers too cheesy?

    Cheers for any advice:)

    PeterPoddy
    Member

    If it feels right, do it. And good luck! πŸ˜€

    I’m voting with take the flowers.

    crankboy
    Member

    Turning up at her’s ? If picking her up to go out no if going for tea yes.

    Premier Icon weeksy
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    It depends how old you both are. Also depends if you nailed her on the first date or not.

    I’d be more inclined to take a can of squirty cream πŸ™‚

    djglover
    Member

    Contraception would be higher on my list

    djglover
    Member

    Unless shes passed the menopause

    Tom B
    Member

    Definitely take sex toys……and spam-everyone loves spam.

    Solo
    Member

    The comedy response is that if you’re asking here on STW.
    Then perhaps you’re in more trouble than flowers can deal with.
    πŸ˜‰

    However, I’d have probably taken a bottle of wine with me.
    But then again, I appear to be a specialist in the niche arena of searching out all the female nut cases.

    So probably best not to listen to me.

    Good Luck.
    πŸ™‚

    Premier Icon dknwhy
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    Take flowers. Girls always love flowers and what harm can it do?

    Take some Spam as a back up plan though in case she doesn’t want the flowers.

    rogerthecat
    Member

    Bunny rabbit and saucepan.

    Premier Icon nickc
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    wine. Flowers are for your mum.

    Premier Icon piedi di formaggio
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    What about one of those cheesy fake roses that are actually made out of a saucy pair of knickers? Double win if it works!

    Davy
    Member

    Nick, are you dating his Mum?

    wrecker
    Member

    Don’t forget to tie a ribbon around your old chap. Chicks dig that.

    IHN
    Member

    I bought the little lady some flowers when we were a-courting, and she looked at me like I’d presented her with a dead kitten.

    She now complains that I never buy her flowers, and each time I remind her why.

    Anyway, take flowers.

    Premier Icon nickc
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    ribbons? I thought it was scars chicks dig?

    when did the rules change? I didn’t get an email

    Tom83
    Member

    Book on famous serial killers.

    Solo
    Member

    when did the rules change? I didn’t get an email

    Dude !, you will never get that e-mail, memo. Chicks don’t do that.

    First rule of date club:

    1: You’re supposed to read their mind.

    πŸ˜‰

    fasthaggis
    Member

    Take an interesting personality and a bit of imagination πŸ˜€

    Premier Icon yoshimi
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    Turning up with flowers isn’t a good look for all men………the fact you’ve mentioned them means you can pull them off…….so yes take flowers

    yetidave
    Member

    flowers, wine, chocolate, contraception. the looks you get at the checkout are funny as well… πŸ˜€

    deadlydarcy
    Member

    Flowers and a bottle of Asti Spumante (chilled).

    yetidave
    Member

    Asti Spumante

    depends on the girl..

    wrecker
    Member

    ribbons? I thought it was scars chicks dig?

    Not on your old chap they don’t. It tends to frighten them a bit.

    khani
    Member

    The only things you need are a cheeky smile, a sense of humour, and your wallet..
    Flowers are for Mother’s Day and when you’re married..

    samuri
    Member

    1: You’re supposed to read their mind.

    Mother of god, NO!

    You’re supposed to anticipate their needs while still approaching them as if they were a mysterious and enigmatic creature. Showing signs of mind reading will tip them over the edge.

    Girls just want to feel special. Do something for her you’d not do for someone else. I dunno, take her a stuffed aardvark. Have you ever done that before?

    Solo
    Member

    the looks you get at the checkout are funny as well…

    Exactly why Self-serve was invented.
    πŸ˜‰

    and your wallet..
    😯

    Mother of god, NO!

    Ah !, I see you are a learned graduate from the school of lucky, random, guessolog. For success with women.
    πŸ™‚

    take her a stuffed aardvark.

    Thats whats for dinner. OP did mention she is Heston Blumenthal’s sister.

    Premier Icon senor j
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    flowers & spam for the win. πŸ˜€

    drlex
    Member

    No quoting of the old joke?

    tall_martin: I’ve brought you some flowers

    Putative Mrs T_M: I suppose you’ll expect me to open my legs for those

    tall_martin: Haven’t you got a vase?

    khani
    Member

    If you take flowers on a second date she’ll think your Normal Norman from Boringtown Tedioushire, who’s after a stepford wife to show off to his mum and dad and equally boring friends…
    Is that you?

    Premier Icon BigJohn
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    If you have to ask…

    khani
    Member

    lube

    You old romantic you…

    taxi25
    Member

    As you mention ex wives your probably of a more mature age, so perhaps your date is aswell. In that case flowers are spot on. In any case if she doesn’t appreciate the thought, she’s probably not worth a third date.

    camo16
    Member

    I’ll see your flowers and raise you a DVD of It’s a Wonderful Life. πŸ˜‰

    Now, you’re not dull or desperate – you’re romantic and in touch with your sensitive side.

    As mentioned above, spam is your fall-back.

    You might also want to think about wearing a hat. Chicks dig hat-wearers.

    KINGTUT
    Member

    Well I’ve just started dating again I had 3 dates with a woman last week, didn’t take a thing to any of them, 4th date She made dinner so I took wine, flowers just aren’t my style.

    We are now in a relationship 8)

    So I guess what I’m saying is do what works for you, but IMO flowers are a tad cheesy.

    fasthaggis
    Member

    Binners ,you forgot to mention the martial arts skilz πŸ˜‰

    [video]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Hzh9koy7b1E[/video]

    Premier Icon matt_outandabout
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    Just remember that flowers from the garage are not ‘real’ flowers, only a proper florist will do. 😐

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