I’ve heard countless stories of 26″ rims getting bent why don’t we all ride 20″ wheels…
Bad rims are not the exclusive territory of any wheel size.
Bad building is not the exclusive territory of any rim size.
Nor too low tyre pressures, bad riding, poor landing etc.
It’s the classic “light, strong, cheap, pick two”
As for why not 650+, the same issues with poor product and poor build will still be there, your tyres will be bigger and chunkier which means weaker or heavier, your rims will be smaller which means lighter or stronger. My money is on most people who complain about trashing rims choosing weaker and lighter in that list because they likely already did for 29er.