That I’ll not meet someone who I want to have kids with… that if I do, we won’t be able to have kids… that if I do and we can… the kids won’t be healthy.

Pretty much everything else seems immaterial in my opinon.

Needles

Heights

Roller Coasters.

Big feet on girls.

we won’t be able to have kids… that if I do and we can… the kids won’t be healthy.

+1

that some of the more prolific/contentious posters on here are actually being serious.

and 5 mm allen keys… 😯

I forgot about big feet on girls… damn you darcy.

Oh god, what if… I meet someone, we can, the kids are healthy BUT.. it’s a girl and she has big feet!!

mmm maybe I have subconcious fear of 5mm allen keys….. would explain why I keep “Losing” them.

Yeti, My little girl had right golf clubs when she was born, poor thing, she has grown into them now though

stw being blocked at work

The Pixies said it best: I’ve Been Tired

what if you have a daughter with big feet?

not being able to make the world a better place for mrsconsequence, i know its not my job and i know very very well you can’t be happy the whole time… but every time i see her upset i want to move the world into a nicer place for her, usually something i say or do helps but the times when nothing i do will help… they scare me more than any height and truly tear something inside me.

i think we could survive anything together, i know i’m being silly… but in those moments i genuinely fear i might not be the best person for her and that breaks me inside.

Cancer

dementia

TSY when you get over that one – ie you have some kids, next it’ll be that something bad happens to them, I spend all day deflecting day/nightmares that pop up with dreadful scenarios involving my babies..

Gastropods. Far more scary than anything above.

Being alone

Thanks Toys19… hopefully I’ll have that to look forward to then.. I think.

Having the tories being voted back into power…………….. Oh!

Having to live in the UK.

Strangely death doesn’t scare me, I have looked it in the square in the eyes an survived. 😈

Being stuck in a lift with James Blake warbling would be pretty scary.

Being ignored is quite worrying too…

THE fear

The deep ocean.

SPIDERS …end of….theres one on my living room wall right now…arghhhh 😉

that i won’t find a new direction

Faced the first expected fear today. FB jnr wanted to know why his arms & legs don’t work and if the Fairy Godmother from Shrek could fix them. The biggest fear of all is who will care for him when we’re not around. That’s what keeps me awake at night.

Tough conversation FB – all the best with that one.

FB-ATB – I’d like to offer you an internet hug?

The deep ocean.

This scares the hell out of me, Big waves small boat nowhere to hide, sharks etc.

That I’ll die before my daughter grows up

And cancer

Strangely I still smoke

All hugs greatly accpeted, thanks TSY. Just needed a release after having to find a positive spin for jnr and the topic hit a nerve.

FB-ATB… release away! I was worried that someone might be living my fear… so if you want to rant away on here…

That I’m going to pitch someone over the fourth floor balcony at work pretty soon. I’m sat on the bus on the way home right now which might actually have saved someone else a lot of pain.

FB-ATB Bless him! Stay strong – kids are x

That I’ll not meet someone who I want to have kids with… that if I do, we won’t be able to have kids… that if I do and we can… the kids won’t be healthy.

+1 for me too. Although adding – what if I get too old to have kids before i meet someone etc etc…

lexiekay… that’s one of the reasons I’m pleased to be a bloke!

Oh, and what size feet have you got? 😆

The injustice of it all!

And I’m a modest size 6 which i think is ‘normal’ – isnt it??

Crawling flat through underground tunnels with the my back touching the ceiling using a lighter to see where I’m going. Unable to turn around.

At the time it was a laugh, but it does my head in now.

Who else went potholing in Cranham woods as a kid?

Yep, size 6 is fine… I’m free tonight? 😆

Sorry – just agreed to going climbing this evening!