Ah, so it’s other people pigeon holing us?
No, it’s just basic latin… 8)
To be clear: I am interested only in why there is a convention of distinguishing between the sexes in a professional context.
The reason is, by convention, men ended up in a lot of roles – so the names of the roles took on the -man suffix. Chairman, Policeman, Fireman etc. When that situation started to change (oh there is a long way to go…) we mistakenly used Chairwoman, Policewoman, Firewoman not Chair, Police Office, Firefighter.
As it happens, I got a bit narked about having to fill in my gender for no apparent reason on a form recently and made some sort of New Year’s pledge thing to challenge each and every form where I’m required to fill it in without their being a legal requirement for the info (eg I was needing to stay in a women’s refuge or something). I’ve said I would use an alternative provider if the provider wouldn’t accept a form without the info. Going to try and keep it up for the whole year. (yes, I do realise this will be hard work)
I’ve only had one form to fill in so far (Cotswold Outdoor and they allowed for a non-answer) so not much to report, yet.
Gender matters for certain things – frankly, I prefer intimate relationships with women more than men. Don’t see an issue with that. It doesn’t matter for virtually everything else, though – why would it?
Rachel