As Earnie pointed out its not democracy at all, as it appears that what the people of Scotland want only matters if they are pro independence.
You seem a little confused. We had the referendum, the result was a no vote and so we stayed in the UK, QED, what the people of Scotland wanted does matter. Because, as I say, democracy.
What would be undemocractic is saying “you voted on a thing once, so now it’s decided forever” So weirdly you seem to be arguing that the proven democratic vote is undemocratic, and an undemocratic response would be democratic.
yet as you acknowledge if opinions were to turn back the other way at a future stage there would be no way of going back.
I said no such thing. What I said was, you couldn’t simply rerun the referendum. But that doesn’t mean there’d be no way back- just that the route back isn’t the same as the route there.