I think the problem is some people take this place a lot more seriously than others…
No-one (aside from a few) takes this too seriously, but if you were to start a thread with “here’s a pic of my new car/bike/boat/house/kitten” only to then be flamed by some smart-arses, it’s a bit sad.
It’s meant to be a ‘community’ here. Even if you don’t understand why someone would buy a car from VAG or whatever, if that person is chuffed and excited about their purchase, in person you would genuinely be happy for them, and give them a hearty congratulations, even if it wasn’t your cup of tea.
Here though, folk will lay criticism in an ill-constructed and throwaway manner, for whatever reason (a multitude of possible causes depending on the individual), but it’s definitely a pattern of be mean, rather than be nice.
Unless of course, the ‘flow’ of the thread is to be nice, in which case folk will be nice. Weird!
Not wishing to cast aspersions, as it’s a complicated, weird dynamic.
However, mostly, stuff gets simply misinterpreted and those that post negative comments are probably quite pleasant in ‘real’ life.
There are a few complete cocks though 😀