If you want something light (not sure if that's the case), then I use Michelin Aircomp Ultralight with a 52mm valve with my 38mm rims, which work fine. Have a fair amount of valve poking out with those, so you may also be OK with 5mm deeper rims – otherwise they also do a 60mm version. Given the ready availability of tubes with long valves (I've also got Specialized and Conti spares), I really can't understand why you'd want to have the hassle of using extenders for rims that deep.
Had my first puncture on one today, but it was a snakebite (my first ever snakebite on road in 25 odd years of riding bikes on road) when I hit a big stone, which would probably have done for any tube.