ROFL @ Fuzzy – think I’ll pass on that though thanks 😉
1) say nothing now and then be accused of knowing all along and betraying her by your boss when it eventually comes out.
2) say something now and be accused of betraying your friend.
My friend does not know I know. Lets just say I saw something I wasn’t meant to see, but I don’t think they saw me. I did think perhaps my eyes deceived me, but my friend was sat in front of me in a presentation yesterday texting him. I wasn’t mistaken.
I don’t know what to do for the best. My boss and her husband are about to go on holiday together for 3 weeks – maybe the affair is a temporary bout of insanity, and it will end of its own accord, but that’s probably an unrealistic hope!
I worry that if I do say something to her, that her husband will have covered his tracks and will deny everything, as will my friend, and I’ll look like a s*** stirrer. I haven’t breathed a word to anyone at work, I am just considering my options – none of them seem good!
Incidentally, my boss and her hubby had an office affair and left their respective partners for one another a few years back…..pattern, methinks.