We first “met” at the briefing for a charity walk up Ben Nevis. I was sat in front of a group of women and one of them was a right gobby/bossy sounding mare.
My mate and I then ended up sat behind her and her mate on the bus from Peterborough to Ben Nevis. She was actually OK to talk to. Had dinner at the hotel as a group, did the walk together – at which point I discovered that she had cerebral palsy – and spent 13 hours on the coach the next day back to Peterborough. By which time our legs had completely ceased up and we couldn’t walk, but we went o the cinema later that week. But it wasn’t a date, apparently, as she would have to wear a dress if it was date. 🙄
That was it really. Boy met girl. Boy moved 180 miles away a month later, 18 months later girl moves 4000 miles away to the edge of Siberia….
20 years since we met, married for 13, two kids. She is still a gobby/bossy mare at times, but she is MY gobby/bossy mare.