We are on holiday. We have two smallish boys and a teenage girl. Several of her friends are also here and she is busy making plans without consulting the long haired general. Her boyfriend is coming tomorrow. My mother is here. My in-laws are here. My sister-in-law and her two feral pre-school children are here.
I’m in the shit for answering the question ‘What do you want to do tomorrow/this week?’ with ‘I’m happy to go along with everyone else, it’s easier that way. As long as I get out on my bike one afternoon that’ll do me.’ Apparently this is being grumpy You couldn’t make this shit up.
Yeah this one,
I’m fairly sure that family Holidays are lovely for Mums and Kids, but for Dad’s it’s just graft, certainly is in my house – I do the driving, most of the paying, all off the fetching and carrying, all of the organising, taking the blame when things go wrong, give the praise when things go right, the liaising with the holiday co when my wife wants to tell them something but relies on ‘her people’ to do it.
I don’t mind really, I’ve never learned to ‘relax’ I’m happier pottering, but THOSE are the reasons why I go on my own holiday without them ha ha