Reccomendations on a budget?
My recommendation is not to be on a budget.
Seriously. Skimp on EVERYTHING else but get the saddle that works, regardless of cost. Otherwise it’ll be misery and you might as well not bother.
I’m not the leanest chicken in the shop and I suffered from numb balls terribly. I figured out that too much padding (and flab) ends up putting excess pressure on your perineum.
So, the Grips recipe for long-term willy-sensation-preserving success is:
1x Specialized Toupe Gel in the right width for your bum (get measured)
1x the best shorts you can afford (pref. Assos – expensive but incredibly durable so not in the long run)
Then tilt the saddle forwards slightly so most of your weight is on the sit bones and NOT on your perineum. Your hips are in a different place when on the drops and the hoods, so you have to find the mid point. Too far forwards and you’ll slide onto the nose and squish your perineum or find your wrists or shoulders ache from holding your body back; too far back and you’ll just be sitting on it.
Road bike fit and setup is FIENDISH if you don’t want something to ache or go numb eventually.