Better still OP forget people being in a church as that is only a building, do something good for someone/humanity, rather than some which I have seen over time, never miss the attendance in church but the rest of the time they are the nastiest vilest people you could ever meet.
What does it mean to me, it’s a reflective time, my mother had her spinal injury on the boxing day, I was nine at the time, so going from a mum who would occasionally have a game of footy with you, walk on the beach, etc, to growing up quickly and pushing a wheelchair. How was the injury caused prolapsed discs which went whilst making up a fire whilst leaning over the jigsaw I was completing that had been a christmas present.
What are my plans this year, hoping to get out on the bike, and the rest of the time will be spent with my Mum, probably a walk/push out and go feed some ducks in the local park, whilst spotting the new growth of bulbs and trees.