number18 – Member
Why keep in touch with an ex? Usually a bad idea all round IME.
Well, that all depends; I’ve stayed on good terms with most of mine, was invited and went to the weddings of two, another, my first, as it happens, has just moved, with her family, to a house just down the road, and I’m going out for a drink with another for her birthday on Monday in Bath.
Just because some people’s relationships end in bitterness and anger, doesn’t mean everyone’s does.
One of my exes phoned me at 10pm one night, after a boozy challenge from a friend, she’d said that I was someone she could trust to be there for her, should anything bad happen, at any time, and they called her on it.
There ensued a really funny conversation with three really pissed females on one end and me on the other, for the best part of an hour!