In my younger days I took a young Irish lady out for a first date on Valentine’s day, to a local restaurant in west London.
The meal was progressing well, candlelit tables etc and I had ‘aspirations’ for other activities later that evening. Back in the day, smoking was allowed in restaurants and after the starter course, she wanted to have a fag (not great considering I was a non-smoker but I went with the flow).
After rummaging in her handbag and finding her ciggies, she found her lighter, only to find that it didn’t work and the candle on our table had gone out earlier, so she sat there wondering how to light her her cigarette. The table next to us still had a lit candle on it, so as quick as a flash I decided to act the gentleman.
Taking a paper napkin off my table I rolled it up tightly at one end, leant across to the next table and politely asked if I could use their candle. I then lit the end of the paper napkin and proceeded to try and light my young ladies ciggarrete. The problem was I hadn’t considered how fast the napkin would burn. By the time I’d lifted it over to our table it was well alight, by the time I leant over to light her ciggarrete it was well ablaze. I’m now sat there thinking **** and with her thinking WTF. I had no option but to drop the now-flaming napkin into the bread basket on our table before it burnt my hand. The bread basket was wooden wicker and lined with paper napkins….the initial lighting of the napkin had caused an unexpected amount of smoke, but nothing compared to the black pyre of smoke now bellowing up from our table as the flames from our bead basket started to form a small but intense inferno. Diners at adjoining tables started to move to the other end of the room and the room was silenced by one of the waiters using a fire extinguisher to put out the flames. Metaphorically the extinguishing of the flames, also signalled the end of our date….
We eventually left the restaurant in an embarrassed silence and no, I didn’t fulfil my aspirations that evening….. funnily enough I never did see her again.