A quick relationship-trackworld question as I’m thinking my partner thinks I’m being unreasonable but I think other wise!

The situation that I need the poll on is:
My girlfriend and I are due to move overseas in a few months and she is having a leaving party for friends/family. Now her sister doesn’t like me and is due to be attending the party. For this reason the GF hasn’t invited me to the party. I think this is being completely unreasonable because if I meant anything to the GF she would invite me anyway.

Any views from STW?

are you serious? if this isn’t a troll then its not just unreasonable its unbelievable.

Bin her

Not a troll, if it was a first time post then I could understand it.

Shit in her pillowcase.

Drac: Thanks for your helpful picture

Not a troll, if it was a first time post then I could understand it.

Standard issue troll response 0.3/10

**** in her pillowcase.

+1

She values her sister more than you, get over it.

Throw a leaving party for your mates at the same place and time. Tell her she’s not invited.

(some colleagues once did this when we weren’t invited to a stag. it was quite funny but also quite mean)

Have your own leaving party for your friends and family and combine it with hers?

**** in her pillowcase.

How come in the original post (sweary 4 letter word beginning with s) isn’t starred out? wierd

if your GF were serious about your relantionship she should tell you and her sister to get over it and invite you…. in fact why is she having her own seperate leaving party?!……

Thanks for the other helpful posts.

Her leaving party is being held by her parents so having a similar party in the same place isn’t an option.

sounds unreasonable to me.

you would expect support from your partner and not to feel like you are being swept under the carpet

Tutgareth: Best advice so far…..thanks

1 to 5 is remarkably good. I’d lock thread now…

…too late. But seriously, are you two not capable of being in the same room as each other, or does the drink make shit turn nasty. Or is it that kind of hate that is really masking something else?

if 1) hell with it, you’re leaving the country and won’t have to see that skank anymore

if 2) wear a stab vest

if 3) go with it – angry leaving sex in a cupboard FTW!

Have you previously tried to ‘do’ her sister?

I haven’t previously tried to do her sister. I wouldn’t touch her with a barge pole.

Her sister’s dislike of me is probably stemming from the fact that she thinks I’m not good enough for her sister. BUT I’m moving overseas with her sister so you would think that you should park that short of cr@p!

Sounds like a remarkably stable situation all round.

Are you off to be travel reps for the spring/summer season?

She won’t see her sister much once you go overseas, it’s no big deal get over it.

Darcy: No, not that I’m conveying it too well, but we’re a little older than that!

MSP: It’s the principle of it though.

As Bobbyspangles said:

you would expect support from your partner and not to feel like you are being swept under the carpet

Are you sure your girlfriend is planning on leaving with you?

I would check

if I meant anything to the GF she would invite me anyway

It’s called answering your own question

My 2p;

1) If you can’t dicuss it between the two of you and come up with an amicable solution then there’s a problem.

2) If you can’t be allowed in the same building as her sister with 40 other people at a party then there’s a problem.

Solution: Turn up extremely drunk after it’s been going for a couple of hours and start shouting outside asking why you weren’t allowed to attend if she really loved you and “where’s that pig of a sister of hers anyway? She’s only jealous ‘cos I turned her down.”.

And then book a slot on Jeremy Kyle.

wwaswas has it!

Maybe you could shag your girlfriends sister. Might make the sister like you. Then you can all go to the party and there will be no awkwardness.

Is “barge pole” your pet name for, er, “little Nev”?