I have a cycling friend who does lots of long distance, solo cycle touring around all parts of the world. She is however thoroughly uninterested in bikes and maintenance. She’s into riding, not bikes, so though she knows how to fix/bodge things at the side of the road to keep going, she has no idea what parts are good, what are bad, what standards have changed, what bits fit which other bits etc.
Whenever she has cause to go to a bike shop she first asks me what she needs to be telling them, then asks for a list of patronising crap they’ll likely spout back, and what comebacks might best stub them out. I’m usually quite on the mark.
If I ran an LBS it would be a priority to have women on the team. The boys club feeling you get in many local bike shops is a relic from a darker age.
All that said, to the OP I do feel inclined to point out that if anyone – no matter how much I loved them – so much as adjusted the brake lever reach on my bike while I was away I’d probably have an aneurism. So tread very carefully.