The rim is box section, and the valve seats onto the inner rim face, and if it’s leaking there, the air/sealant will mostly flow into the hollow section, so I’m not sure if you can feasibly test the valve seat for leaks.
Make sure the valve stem lock nut is done up really tight. And make sure the valve core is inserted properly (don’t over-tighten it)
I don’t understand your comment about tyre seating. You say it pops on easily, but is a nightmare to get off ? How can that be the case ?
Have you pumped up and squirted soapy water all the way round the tyre bead and sidewalls ?