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  • JonBoy
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    Wife went into labour at 22weeks last night. Our little girl was with us for a few minutes. Totally numb. Lost one last September.

    iwluap
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    Bugger, can’t imagine what you are going through. Stay strong.

    nbt
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    Brought a tear to my eye that has. Horrible. *Manhugs*

    Suggsey
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    Sincere condolences for you and your wife’s loss of your daughter.

    unknown
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    That’s beyond words. I’m just very very sorry for you.

    wrecker
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    Sorry for your loss. Dreadful.

    hora
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    Speechless and nothing I can say to help. Feel for you 🙁

    ads678
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    Really horrible news, so sorry for you and your wife.

    andyl
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    Read that several times hoping I had read it wrong. I am sure you are feeling something similar only a billion times worse. 🙁

    the-muffin-man
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    Feeling for you both.

    It’s hard to stay positive at times like these, and no words can soften the blow, but there can be hope.

    We went through the same 3 times – and it stretched us to breaking point. But eventually went on to have a healthy daughter who is now 12, and those times seem a long way behind us. Never forgotten, but a distant memory.

    tang
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    Really feel for you. We have been there twice late and more early also, hold on to each other lots.

    Harry_the_Spider
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    There is nothing meaningful that can be said in reply to that. 🙁

    Junkyard
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    Took my aunty three attempts to get my cousin with all the previous ending like that I dont know if that will comfort you but I hope it does.

    Sorry for your families loss

    nemesis
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    That’s horrible – having gone through it more than once (but 10 weeks earlier) I really feel for you. Try and be there for each other and accept that it’s going to take a while to (partially) get over it but know that it will be with you for the rest of your life.

    As above though, it’s not the end though and there’s every hope.

    timthetinyhorse
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    Truly cant even imagine how yur feeling nor what words are even suitable, really feel for you and your family. Stay strong though, my best friend went through this twice and then the miracle happened and they are over the moon…..i know that means very little but dont give up.
    Take care.

    thegreatape
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    Sorry

    NZCol
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    Sorry no words, absolute heartfelt sadness for you both.

    SaxonRider
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    Having been there ourselves, JonBoy, I can sympathise profoundly. Very best wishes to you and your wife. Take care.

    martinhutch
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    So sorry to read that. My condolences.

    scotia
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    very sorry for your loss, i cant think of anything to help im sorry. take care of you both

    mogrim
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    My sympathies – it happened to us, but a year later all went well… Take care, it’s a shitty thing to happen but try to keep your spirits up.

    avdave2
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    Our little girl was with us for a few minutes

    Then you are a father and your wife is a mother and you always will be. I expect you were a much better father for those few minutes than I’ve ever managed as well. And if you have more children in the future then you’ll not waste a minute of it as so many of us do. And if you don’t you’ll never forget those you did have even though it was for such a short time.

    tomd
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    Sorry to hear that, best wishes

    atlaz
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    Sympathies with you and Mrs JonBoy. Be strong by all means but let yourself grieve. I had a colleague who had this happen to him and his wife on a few occasions. Now they have two lovely kids so the can be light at the end of this particular, dark tunnel.

    cumberlanddan
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    Been in a similar position myself so I know there’s not much to say. Time heals I suppose but its no consolation.

    As others say, take care.

    stumpy01
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    🙁

    Dunno what to say. But very sorry to hear that.

    Stay strong for each other and keep talking. I wish you all the best…..

    pondo
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    So sorry. 🙁

    Pigface
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    Very sad for you both. My condolences

    JonBoy
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    Placenta not coming away. Taking her to theatre. As horrible as this is we are so so so lucky that we do have 2 girls.

    fadda
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    Nothing helpful to say, but just wanted to offer my pathetic little bit of support. Sympathies to everyone…

    JonBoy
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    Thank you for all your messages. Really does help.

    gonzy
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    my sincere condolences for your loss.

    freeagent
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    Horrible situation, have been through similar at 12 weeks and was very tough.
    So sorry for your loss.

    z1ppy
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    So sorry for you loss, don’t give up

    murf
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    Sorry to hear this, cant imagine what you are going through. Makes you realise just how lucky you are not to have things like this happen in your own life.

    stanfree
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    That’s awful , I have 3 kids and can’t imagine what you are going through . My heartfelt condolences go out to you. Take care of each other .

    hatter
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    That is utterly horrible, you have total sympathy, makes you realise what matters in life.

    wilburt
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    🙁 I dont have words, stay strong.

    PimpmasterJazz
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    I can only imagine what you’re going through.

    Massive massive condolences.

    deadlydarcy
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    Very little to say here other than how sorry mrs DD and I are to have just read that. I hope you and your partner can find a way through what will be a tough time coming up. Look after one another. That’s a shit deal life has dealt and hopefully better things will come your way.

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