It’s hard to stay positive at times like these, and no words can soften the blow, but there can be hope.
We went through the same 3 times – and it stretched us to breaking point. But eventually went on to have a healthy daughter who is now 12, and those times seem a long way behind us. Never forgotten, but a distant memory.
That’s horrible – having gone through it more than once (but 10 weeks earlier) I really feel for you. Try and be there for each other and accept that it’s going to take a while to (partially) get over it but know that it will be with you for the rest of your life.
As above though, it’s not the end though and there’s every hope.
Truly cant even imagine how yur feeling nor what words are even suitable, really feel for you and your family. Stay strong though, my best friend went through this twice and then the miracle happened and they are over the moon…..i know that means very little but dont give up.
Take care.
Then you are a father and your wife is a mother and you always will be. I expect you were a much better father for those few minutes than I’ve ever managed as well. And if you have more children in the future then you’ll not waste a minute of it as so many of us do. And if you don’t you’ll never forget those you did have even though it was for such a short time.
Sympathies with you and Mrs JonBoy. Be strong by all means but let yourself grieve. I had a colleague who had this happen to him and his wife on a few occasions. Now they have two lovely kids so the can be light at the end of this particular, dark tunnel.
Sorry to hear this, cant imagine what you are going through. Makes you realise just how lucky you are not to have things like this happen in your own life.
Very little to say here other than how sorry mrs DD and I are to have just read that. I hope you and your partner can find a way through what will be a tough time coming up. Look after one another. That’s a shit deal life has dealt and hopefully better things will come your way.