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  • top woman can't find top man . advice needed on etiquette
  • craigbike
    Free Member

    hi my ex who just is a top woman and mountain biker is 40 but keeps getting messaged by much older guys 50 plus

    she is wondering is it ok to put that she is 37 just to attract right age group guys
    i think it is ok ( as long as she fesses up soon after meeting someone)
    what do u think
    cheers

    glupton1976
    Free Member

    That post is all sorts of wrong. I do however, have beer, cake and nothing better to do today, so fire away.

    khani
    Free Member

    Oooh!, ooooh!!! [runs to put kettle on]
    these ones are generally good.. 😀

    hungrymonkey
    Free Member

    as someone very much in the dating game atm, i’d be a little put out by someone faking their age.

    i’m not put off by people a little older than me at all, i recently went on a date with someone 7 yrs older than me and had a great time. perhaps she needs to change her profile in different ways to come across a bit younger, and just needs to wait for the right guy to ask.

    alternatively, maybe she just needs to say on her profile the age range she is interested in.

    peterfile
    Free Member

    without a picture of her, i’m not sure that any of us can properly advise you.

    Woody
    Free Member

    Obvious question but if she is a top woman AND your ex, is there are a reason you are so keen to fix her up?

    If she is on dating sites why not just say the max age she is interested in when she sets her criteria?

    Junkyard
    Free Member

    craigbike
    Free Member

    cheers monkey thats a good idea to say prefered age range

    i think guys tend to look a bit younger than their own age
    and i know i did a have that tendency when i was on dating sites.

    d45yth
    Free Member

    Don’t ever lie on a dating site, as soon as folk find out, they think that you’re hiding something and you’re possibly married or in a relationship!

    curvature
    Free Member

    This site gets stranger by the hour!

    craigbike
    Free Member

    just wanted to get some feedback from real guys
    i am happily hooked up but its interesting to hear opinions

    she has got a broken collarbone at mo so cud post x ray ha ha

    oliverd1981
    Free Member

    Top Man is usually next to, or upstairs from Top Shop, possibly near Dorothy Perkins.

    CaptainFlashheart
    Free Member

    just wanted to get some feedback from real guys

    And you came here?

    chewkw
    Free Member

    If she is still fertile with child bearing ability than that should be advertised as younger male species might be interested in those info.

    craigbike
    Free Member

    good point , i told her that

    singletrackmind
    Full Member

    Does she like Star Wars , Audi’s , Singlespeeders and beards?
    If Yes She will fit right in on here , if no then send to Fitness Singles ( and tell us the URL )
    As for lying about age , I reckon no. Just put in the ad strict instructions like.- No one in any sort of relationship , and preferably between 36 and 44 . Sorted .

    uselesshippy
    Free Member

    Put a disclaimer,
    “no coffin dodgers” 😀

    muckytee
    Free Member

    Haha 😆 uselesshippy

    glasgowdan
    Free Member

    How young a guy is she looking for? 😉

    plumber
    Free Member

    its not the age thats the problem its the attitude. people over 40 are lazy, screwed up, baggage bringers

    ahem……genreally like…..not that I have any knowledge of this at all 🙂

    psling
    Free Member

    As someone in my 50s, I am greatly offended by such discrimination.
    If I divide my age by 2 and add 7, she is well within my parameters and therefore me hers 😉

    (Although my wife may have something to say about the matter… 😳 )

    IanMunro
    Free Member

    As a 44 year old real guy, I really need pictures to decide whether she should go with 40 or 37.
    Any pic of her doing some boom knarly hip off a tabletop should do it.

    /serious mode
    Age / looks come a distance second to a GSOH.

    IanMunro
    Free Member

    I forgot to say, I’m not prepared to travel more than 10 miles, unless she’s a bit depraved.

    Trekster
    Full Member

    psling – Member
    As someone in my 50s, I am greatly offended by such discrimination.
    If I divide my age by 2 and add 7, she is well within my parameters and therefore me hers

    (Although my wife may have something to say about the matter… )
    Ditto……

    Me yesterday 😆 Just old enough to be her dad 😉

    aracer
    Free Member

    she has got a broken collarbone at mo so cud post x ray

    I’m sure there would be plenty of interest – fire away.

    Though the thing we need to know is if she’s such a top woman, why is she your ex?

    stevewhyte
    Free Member

    Though the thing we need to know is if she’s such a top woman, why is she your ex?

    Good point, well made.

    khani
    Free Member

    labsey
    Free Member

    Though the thing we need to know is if she’s such a top woman, why is she your ex?

    Hmmm good question.

    craigbike
    Free Member

    ok here’s a pic or two of the aforementioned ex
    she is fit ie can beat me up any hill !
    she is a top girl really
    be gud if she found a gud man too
    please keep your comments respectful ha ha
    any way i am very sorted with new model!
    happy viewing!


    craigbike
    Free Member

    we split over five yrs ago but she is a gud friend and mate
    we are dissimilar in temperment so all gud now
    top people are worth knowing

    anyway i prefer short dark haired women now! not that i just go on looks ha ha but a gud rider is always a bonus too

    LadyGresley
    Free Member

    My lovely man wasn’t too bothered to find out I was actually 5 years older than I said! I did confess on our first meeting.

    MSP
    Full Member

    You do realise “top women” has certain connotations in modern dating parlance?

    craigbike
    Free Member

    craigbike
    Free Member

    craigbike
    Free Member

    [/quote]You do realise “top women” has certain connotations in modern dating parlance?

    enlighten me?

    btw, are pics up?

    bobbyatwork
    Free Member

    I’ll give her a bash…where she live? I’m 41 btw

    CaptainFlashheart
    Free Member

    Nice pedals! Proper old school red DX!

    Oh, and does she know you’re pimping her out on STW? I’d certainly hope so, given that you’re posting pics…

    wwaswas
    Full Member

    Is she aware you’re posting this?

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