i think discs on a road bike is safer. I’ve got cable disks on my Roadrat which is currently configured as a road bike and they’re brilliant. The modulation is far better than the 105 rim brakes on my ‘proper’ road bikes, and despite having the same sized tyres at the same pressure the braking is far better on the roadrat, despite it being heavier. You can lock up road bike wheels with normal rim brakes just as easily as you can with disc brakes so that’s not an issue, you get used to them instantly. The modulation and improved feel far outweigh the downsides.
There are downsides. The discs can ring sometimes, which is a minor annoyance if you’re the sort of person that expects thier bike to be silent – i’m not that bothered and can tolerate the odd creak or ring if I know what they are and they’re not an issue. Also you can get wheel ejection issues if the dropouts are not designed well.
Whether or not its a feature that would be the main reason to choose one bike over the other, i’m not sure and would probably depend on how you’d use the bike i.e. if you’re going to use it in crappy weather. All else being equal i’d go for the disks – if not then things like frame quality and other items on the spec sheet will potentially be more preferable, especially if its a pure road/race bike.
I can’t see me ever buying another road bike without disks now. Then again I probably buy a road bike once every 10yrs, so my current proper road bike with rim brakes is it for the forseeable.