Mung-Bean; I suspect it had more to do with him being a bit ‘old-fashioned’ and narrow minded about stuff. I had never met any of the people before. I don’t believe he’s particularly homophobic, but the way he said it was almost as if he was implying some sort of ‘fault’, something abnormal and alien. Which maybe, because of his narrow-minded ness and lack of understanding, is how her sexuality appears to him.
He’d introduced me to her, as he had with several other people, so why not use her name? I noticed that he would refer to others by name, but to this particular woman as ‘that Lesbian bird’.
As though she wasn’t a ‘person’, but a ‘thing’.
Soz all a bit too serious and stuff really. Just find it fascinating, trying to figure out how and why people think and act the way they do really.
And I’m suddenly mindful of the ironic fact that I’ve made far more of a big deal about Emsz’ sexuality than anyone else on here has. 😳
I do hope my ramblings make some sort of sense to someone though. Human behaviour is just so complex; trying to work stuff out is something I really enjoy.