“question” in that context is also one of those words 🙂
My point being that people tend to go for similar things because they’re popular or suit most people. Sure some people just choose things because they’re the accepted norm but that doesn’t mean that everyone else can’t question, just that the answer is ‘I don’t need to do it differently’.
I think you misunderstood “Designing things to suit yourself and enhance your ‘living experience’ is not the same thing.”
To use maths it’d be:
(Designing things to suit yourself and enhance your ‘living experience’) is not the same thing as being ‘different’
Hope that’s clearer