Ah ha it was Go Otdoors I first looked at but the nearest to That Larndarn where I am this weekend is.. Thurrock and there is no way on this planet you will find me in that hell hole so I went to Cotswold who have a store next to Cyclesport in Strype St in Spittalfields... The staff there were very very helpful, accommodating, unabridged advice, once I've finalised my list I'm going to buy my stuff from them, they couldn't have been more helpful.
I only intend to do "light" camping with it. You know the kinda thing, occasional weekends, the odd night here and there, with locations anywhere in the UK but deffo not in winter, nooooo... That's just wrong I'll use it for trips in Europe too..
Sleeping bags.. Vango Wildeness & Stratos, Cotswolds own branded Ayacucho synthetic Solar all fit the bill, not looking at down filled as they seem like too expensive for what I'll use them for. The mats look pretty cool, semi inflated foam that you can give an extra lungful of air into seem the way to go, and those pillows that fold into themselves..
Ah one more point, whilst weight isn't an issue as I don't intend carrying it very far, I've been amazed at how light and small stuff packs into, so I could go further with it so I'm taking an interest, but it's not my prime concern.
Thanks for your tips lads, appreciate your efforts as always.