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I hate the thought of hours of commuting every week so am very reluctant to move far out of Edinburgh, but my girlfriend suggested Linlithgow which looks like a good compromise. it is – if she would be driving to somewhere out of the city she doesn’t want to waste 30-40 mins getting to the m/way so this makes sense.
Is the commute to Edinburgh a reasonable ride? 20 miles sounds ideal but what’s a good route?
it is perfectly doable – how practical will depend on exact employer (location, facilities, start/finish times, etc). There are two common routes: Lin-Kirkliston-Dalmeny and then follow the cyclepath into Edinburgh, or Lin-Kirkliston-Airport then follow the cyclepath on the A8 into Edinburgh. Exact choice will depend on where your office is, but the Dalmeny route is faster flowing (the A8 cyclepath is a PITA – junctions, lights, bridges etc). The train service is also good.
What is Linlithgow like to live in, I’ve heard reasonably good things but don’t really know the place at all.
generally good. Very much a family town including lots of good schools (6 primary, 1 secondary), a predominantly (but not exclusively) middle class commuter population, and more pubs and cafe’s than it should really have for its size. Its not somewhere with a real “night life” though – but you are only 20 mins from Edinburgh and 35 from Glasgow. Others have mentioned good biking locally – active, friendly club. It is popular enough that proximity to the train station and being within the catchment area for the schools inflate house prices. I’ve lived in, or had friends in, most of the nearby alternatives and I wouldn’t pick them.
Bridge of Allan / Dunblane are credible suggestions of similar “standing” too – but out of cycling distance for Edinburgh.