1. I assume so with the right headset or mix, as most taper headset are for frames with 1.5 bottom and 1-1/8 top IIRC. I'm unaware of a tapered headset for a C'dale (what would be the point, as they already use a 1.5 headstock), so you may have to mix and match two headset to make one work on the C'dale? (reducer top and 1.5 bottom)
2. No idea about irresponsible but you'll invalidate you warrenty unless you run them at the 130mm setting IIRC (due to the Crown to axle limit C'dale have)
3. See 2 and make choice based on your warrenty
4. Depends on what you want to do with the bike, ride everywhere or just gravity based. The Minutes could be up 2Lb lighter in weight than the RC's but thats never stopped ppl riding 'all day' if your prepared to do it.