need a 4×4. Get a proper one. Need an estate car? Get a proper one
Obviously you've never driven one.
My wife has the facelifted older model with the BMW TD engine and an auto box. On road its reasonably quiet and quick enough, especially with her on/off auto driving technique… Off road it will do anything we've ever needed, including towing loaded horseboxes across paddocks/fields/muddy lanes etc. It was also superb in the snow.
We did a Land Rover off-road day in one just after we bought it, nothing stopped it – mainly due I would suggest to the 'electronics', not the driver.
I you don't need the 'size' of a Disco, the Freelander works – and go auto also.
And I get my (large) HT in fully built, just drop the rear seats.