Debated this one with a mate this morning, so I thought I'd put it out there to the gauge the wisdom of the STW masses
Basically was seeing a lady for a while earlier, but she called it off as she said she viewed it as nothing more than a **** buddy arrangement. Anyhows as I quite liked the girl I thought I'd make more of an effort and invited her out on a few 'dates', dinner, cinema drinks etc etc.
Shes been more than happy to come along, we've had a good laugh, but then shes pretty much just turned round and said she thought I was just inviting her out as a mate. Not entirely sure why she thinks this, as she knows I like her. More tellingly I've paid for everything,dinner, drinks, taxis etc etc. Of course I don't mind doing this if its a date, but seems a bit off to accept I pay for everything as her 'mate'.
Is she just a chancer who needs told where to go, or am I just being tight, I've misread the signs, and the guy pays regardless of whether they are in a relationship? Comedy STW answers of course more than welcome....(as are donations to the 300 quid hole in my wallet I've racked up this week)