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As said, don’t do the squeeze and tighten method. I think you may have hit on something with rotor diameter too. Avid do 185 as well as 180 and I think it’s Hope that does 183. Shimano do 180.
Avid mounts tend to have cup and cone alignment washers, Shimano didn’t used to but sometimes do now. This affects things a bit more in terms of mounting but sounds like you’ve got this sorted.
Tightening the allen key will twist the caliper to turn in towards the rotor unless you stabilise it with a hand until one of the bolts is tight. Even then it can tweak things out of place 😡
So:
1. Pads out, pistons back, align as above.
2. Put it all back together and check alignment.
3. Tighten when happy that both pads are working evenly and the rotor is not flexing when the brake bites.
Be careful not to pull the brake when there are no pads in as you can pop your pistons out, leading you into a world of pain (unless you’re making subtle adjustments like the screwdriver thingy). Additionally a screwdriver will be too hard if you have ceramic pistons (newer SLX & XT). A plastic tyre lever is a better thing to use to nudge the pistons with.