All of us need a little down time, you can be a dad and still ride.
I normally get about 6 hours a week (an evening plus a sunday morning) plus maybe a lunchtime so 8 hours riding a week, say.
This doesn’t feel like it’s too little but sometimes I get asked to do longer rides at a weekend and this can cause problems fitting in around family life, children etc. I understand this so tend not to ask as a smack in the mouth often offends (joke! but it has caused friction trying to balance my desire to ride a bike with hers to spend time with me and the family when she’s not around much during the week).
My wife thought it would be a nice gesture to give me some ‘free’ extra time to spend how I wanted either with lots of smaller extensions to existing rides or a couple of big days out.
I don’t understand what the problem is personally – it felt like a nice gesture and the wording around it made me laugh.
Please don’t feel sorry for me, I couldn’t cope.