I'm simply a guest in here who observes their (un) written rules.
I'm curious about this. What do you believe are unwritten rules?
I've spoken about this before, as far as I can, but I'm a big fan of transparency (which is why I opted to have the tag against my name rather than remain anonymous). If you think there's something unwritten then please, bring it to my / our attention and I'll do what I can to get the T&Cs firmed up or explain what's going on.
We do what we believe is right and often it's a judgement call. It's not always an easy call to make, things are rarely black and white. If there's inconsistency it is, in my opinion, simply because different people respond, rather than any Section 31 style hidden agenda.
Seriously, if you think things could be clearer, tell us.