nwilko, I certainly can't compete with your winter driving experience and since I am a firm believe in experience being more important than theory I'm on a hiding-to-nothing with this, BUT your argument for "why" simply does not stack up. You're suggesting a car that starts to spin with non-winter tyres on the rear cannot be recovered OR I have totally missed your point.
Forget the argument about different tyres on front and back for a moment. If the back end goes on a FWD car it is because it has lost traction and counter-steering can correct it because it allows the rear wheels to find traction again. Many of us on here will have had to do that at some stage and not necessarily in winter. If you have 4 winter tyres on and the rear end breaks lose, what do you do? Counter steer. There's simply no difference in what you have to do. A tyre losing traction is a tyre losing traction.
Winter tyres on the front allow you to get around much more easily than no winter tyres on. They don't give you carte-blanche to drive "normally" and I agree you need to be careful on the bends AND know what to do if it all goes wrong. I would rather be moving carefully than just be stuck not going anywhere at all.
as for this...
unless you think driving like a rally driver is appropriate for the public road
Regardless of what I'm driving and with what wheels, if I need to drive like a rally driver to avoid a spin/crash/accident then of course I will. If more people on our UK roads knew some of those skills we wouldn't come to a standstill at the first sign of the white stuff...
...and of course if they put FOUR winter tyres on
final comment,
if youve got winters on the front and normal on the rear the car has grip/traction biased towards the front, if the snow & ice can only offer a fixed amount of friction you will always reach the point where the rears loose traction before the front, how can you reverse this relationship once the rears are sliding, more braking will increase the spin, more throttle will potentially straighten the car and increase speed which means you now cant get round the corner that caused you to loose the back in the 1st place.
Counter steering / steering where you wish to go is valid for recoving from a skid but is more suited to RWD.
The reason youve lost the rear on that corner was that 2weeks ago you fitted winters on the front with oodles of traction that got you moving too fast for the amount of grip your rears can generate, kaboom hello ditch/tree....
FWD with winters only on front is similar to lift off oversteer in a 911, a knife-edge..
Re sheet ice the only thing that works is studded tyres that can bite, but these are destroyed on dry tarmac and destroy the road surface + creating dust/health issues.
re second hand winters if the sipes (multiple cracks if you like) on each tread block are not present (their not full depth of each tread block) the winter tyre has massively reduced grip than compared to its new state, (you may be wasting your money)..