I suppose I’d class this guy as a mate, but not a close one. Not someone I’d have a heart to heart with…
Anyway, most of my insight into his life is through Facebook, even though he lives 100yds away. My daughter and his are friends.
He has weight issues and I guess confidence issues. I’ve tried to help him with lifestyle changes, but although he’ll listen, pays lip service and does his own thing.
This aside, he shouts out for a lot of attention on Facebook. Always got an ailment or injury – like every day. He claims to be bipolar and likes telling the world about it. I’m beginning to wonder if the injuries he posts pictures of on Facebook are in fact self harm.
This all culminated yesterday in him asking for advice on Facebook whilst he waited for medical advice as he’d slit his wrists. He hadn’t, but someone called an ambulance and he was declared as being ok. Today come the outpourings of thanks for people supporting him and he is available for home visits if anyone wants to come round.
The saddest part is that his daughters saw all this nonsense and are distraught. The guy is obviously messed up, but I’m not sure in what way and to what degree. I don’t suppose there’s much involvement I can have to rectify the situation and if I’m honest, I don’t really know how to feel about the way he’s acting.