Used cheapo SRAM 1:1 ratio shifters and do find them a long throw. Would never get them again, though some messing around with cables and outers has helped by making them extremely light to use – too light almost, often double shift. Anyway, that's not going to help.
Grip shifters (even the cheap ones, see a trend here?) would help I think, but growing up with Grifters I can't bring myself to have them on my main xc bike.
I'd maybe suggest a rapid rise rear mech too, only because Mrs Thebunk may find it better to 'suffer' the throw going into higher gears, typically when the technical event has happened. What's more, they're nicer that way round anyway!