Think about the context of usage, the situation of power, things like that.
but it's precisely the issue of context that the bone of contention.
it's being put forward that the phrase is used in the context of it universally meaning rape and women on here are finding it offensive as a result.
my whole point is that it's not about rape, it's just industrial language for anal sex and that most people, male and female are more than comforatble with that (the syntax not the act !!), hence why 40,000 women find it a bit of a giggle.
some people on here have found it offensive and let's be honest, some more people have found it offensive merely because it's offended others rather than because it's offended themselves.
i think some of those people might do well to reflect on the fact that being offended doesn't always make you right
go in peace.