tbh I’m not sure here is the best place to ask for fit advice for a road bike. Most recreational mtbers look like a sack of shite sat on a road bike and don’t have a first clue about the difference in riding positions between the two disciplines. So their concept of what fits is bobbins.
If you already have one bike that does not fit you well, have no roadie friends who can advise you in the real world looking and riding with you on your current bike for comparison, I’d be shelling out for a bike fit before spending more on a new machine.
edit- a quick look at the revelator and whilst not extreme in geometry it’s not got the longest headtube relative to overall dimensions. There would be better frames for a fat and inflexible lad……like a roubaix 😉