I’ve recently swapped from a Ally framed bike to a GIANT Propel, a bit of a night and day scenario for me as the Propel is Full carbon including Deep section wheels. There seems to be little or NO give in either the frame or the Wheels.
First thoughts were pretty much the same as yours………… OH Fooook what have i done, The first two weeks i pretty much gave up on it as i just couldn’t get my head round it and just felt awkward. Not only that i was no faster on the thing than i was on the Ally framed 27mm tyred behemoth.
I had a fortnights Holiday and when i came back i’d kinda forgotton the Ally bike even existed, i’d forgotton how to ride it and instinctively found speed on the Propel where before i was just lost on it. I also put some Vittoria Open Pave’s on it in 25mm which instantly changed the ride and feel.
I’m now a lot faster than i was on the Behemoth, but looking forward to dragging it out for the winter.
Stick with it, And change the tyres.