I’m fairly sure I never got involved in any of those threads where everyone picked him apart but it does leave me with a sense of guilt regardless.
I never knew him and don’t know what happened, but the tributes here do seem at odds with what I remember from what some people had to say to / about him during his tenure on STW. I share your guilt prickings.
I do hope that the people who regularly gave him a shoeing stop and think for a moment that there is in fact real people at the other end of an account name rather than “it’s only the Internet.” I know that this has given me pause over shooting from the hip when I’ve got a grump on.
Sorry if that’s an inappropriate thing to say, I’m Aspie so I honestly don’t know but I’m experiencing cognitive dissonance reading this and it felt somehow important to me that we learn something here. Something positive to come out of it, as it were.