Well, I'm not exactly a "traditional" girl, either!!
I think I'm going to sign up for the Women's Week Lucy has mentioned - sounds like fun...
I must admit, I'm about to sell my DH bike. I had a back injury last year and it has brought it to my sharp attention that I'll never ride hard enough to warrant 8inches of travel on any bike. TBH, though, I've used my 5 inch FS bike out in Morzine and I don't think I was any slower. The only things holding me back are in my head, not on my bike...
If you ever ride up in the Dark Peak or the Dales, let me know - I may be around...
Rachel