My Ex partner found out she was pregnant about a fortnight after we decided to go our own ways, as a consequence we have a fantastic son who is nearly one - we share his care between us.
Its a scenario a bit like knocked up but without the happy ending as i realised that I'd fallen for her all over again as a result of a few attempts to play happy families but she is adamant there is no chance of a relationship beyond being "mates" and its really starting to get me down.
Bearing in mind that we will still be seeing each other several times a week so I cant just go into hiding, does anyone out there have a tried and tested method of getting over a "break up" bearing in mind wont be in a position to buy myself a new bike for several years ! When im with my son I don't really think about it but the moment I have to drop him off this dark cloud descends. While I accept resorting to a bike forum for advice is a sign of increasing desperation, I haven't even got the motivation to get out on the bike at the moment which Is normally my cure all so have run out of ideas.
Cheers in advance for any sensible comments.