Not all cypresses are Leylandii, which is a particularly vigorous hybrid. Having said that they are all pretty ugly as hedging. We have some big cypresses forming a hedge at the front of our building and I’d love to have them out and plant a real hedge of hawthorn, blackthorn, field maple etc. Even yew and holly. Nothing to stop you mixing them up.
I don’t like beech in winter – it always reminds me of those hedges surrounding electricity substations. It only keeps its leaves in winter while it remains quite low. I’m not fond of laurel either, but the new builds round here all have it – on chalk, see.
Soil type and location might be a factor.
Berberis is good as natures razor wire, should that be a factor.
Edit: whips are very cheap and start off looking pathetic but they get away and established much better than bigger plants and will catch up in a few years.